Why do guys not treat me well?

If most all of the guys you go out with don't treat you well, then it is a cycle that you are caught up in. Everyone has issues, and everyone has problems. A lot of our problems are brought on by the way we lived and were treated while growing up. It sounds like you are battling with some emotional scars and unresolved issues from your family. You allow the guys to mistreat you because you are most comfortable that way because that's all you've ever known. Even though you feel hurt by their actions, it's a familiar feeling. Counseling can help you and once you understand why you tolerate abuse, you can learn to change these patterns.